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<urlset xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance" xmlns="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9" xmlns:image="http://www.google.com/schemas/sitemap-image/1.1" xsi:schemaLocation="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9 http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9/sitemap.xsd"><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2014/04/06/letting-go-building-the-bridge-to-moving-on/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/goodlife.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>goodlife</image:title><image:caption>Someone's front door in Laguna Beach</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/lighthouse.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>lighthouse</image:title><image:caption>Fire Island, NY</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-08T02:38:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2013/06/04/the-things-we-hold-on-to/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 2</image:title><image:caption>A contract I wrote at 12 promising to save all my memories.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title><image:caption>My favorite line: "When  I am a woman I will show this to my children boy or girl." </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/800px-clouds_from_aircraft.jpg</image:loc><image:title>800px-Clouds_from_aircraft</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/napa.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>napa</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-23T14:09:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/about/</loc><lastmod>2013-11-16T02:16:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2013/06/06/moving-to-california-to-make-my-12-year-old-self-happy-and-to-see-mary-tyler-moore/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/hollywood.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>hollywood</image:title><image:caption>Hollywood Boulevard, 2012</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/ca.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CA</image:title><image:caption>"California is PARADISE!"</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/ca2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CA2</image:title><image:caption>"Wish I was in California with Mary Tyler Moore if that's where she lives, she could be in New York."</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-10T01:32:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2013/05/31/i-wish-someone-would-tell-me-what-all-the-fuss-is-about-in-which-new-york-city-pops-my-cherry/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/empire-state-building-new-york-city-tours-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>empire-state-building-new-york-city-tours copy</image:title><image:caption>Photo source: Travelblog.viator.com </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/scanned-image-131510007.jpg</image:loc><image:caption>We very much were going to change the world back then. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-10-17T20:23:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2013/03/04/on-bullying-fat-kids-and-fighting-back-it-only-takes-one/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/screen-shot-2013-03-03-at-12-05-59-pm.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2013-03-03 at 12.05.59 PM</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/picture-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>picture copy</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-03T17:17:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2012/10/27/the-stealth-rate-at-which-things-change/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/486561_733929542491_416118373_n.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>feet in the air </image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-10-27T05:37:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/01/15/the-power-of-oprah-compels-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/oprah-cover.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Oprah-cover</image:title><image:caption>Oprah, the new messiah </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-10-27T04:48:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2011/05/11/a-girls-name-i-like/</loc><lastmod>2011-10-06T12:34:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2011/04/09/who-moved-my-cheese/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/who-moved-cheese.jpg</image:loc><image:title>who-moved-cheese</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-04-13T23:36:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/12/05/30-going-on-13/</loc><lastmod>2013-11-15T06:31:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/01/04/i-eat-my-feelings-but-i-should-probably-punch-you-instead/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/2ry3d400.jpg</image:loc><image:title>central park boathouse </image:title><image:caption>today; aiming for a happier self. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc00243bc22.jpg</image:loc><image:title>college graduation</image:title><image:caption>college graduation, 2003; weight gain after 4 years of binging </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc00243bc21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc00243bc2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc0022e0ad3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>senior prom</image:title><image:caption>senior prom, 1999; the peak of my weight control </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc0022e0ad2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>high school prom</image:title><image:caption>senior prom 1999; the peak of my weight control </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc00243bc2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>college graduation </image:title><image:caption>college graduation, 2003; my weight ballooned </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc0022e0ad1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>high school senior prom</image:title><image:caption>senior prom; weight maintanence at its finest </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc0022e0ad.jpg</image:loc><image:title>high school prom</image:title><image:caption>high school senior prom; weight maintenance at its finest </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc00233cc4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>high school basketball </image:title><image:caption>highschool basketball team photo; the beginning of bulimia  </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sc0052c8a71.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fat kid and a bully </image:title><image:caption>Fat kid on the left; normal kid on the right. Normal kid beat up fat kid.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2010-11-06T04:04:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/10/05/life-is-like-surfing/</loc><lastmod>2010-10-05T13:41:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/07/11/time-to-make-the-donuts/</loc><lastmod>2010-07-15T01:59:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/05/21/brother-can-you-spare-some-change/</loc><lastmod>2010-05-24T14:06:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/05/16/dont-try-this-at-home/</loc><lastmod>2010-05-21T07:55:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/05/02/you-are-who-you-come-from/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/lettertograndma1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lettertograndma</image:title><image:caption>Exhibit A: Letter to Edith from her criminal grandchild. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/lettertograndma.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lettertograndma</image:title><image:caption>Exhibit A: Letter to Edith from her criminal grandchild. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/sc000f1c961.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc000f1c96</image:title><image:caption>Grandmom Edith</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/sc000f1c96.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc000f1c96</image:title><image:caption>Grandmom Edith</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/sc001e3a63.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc001e3a63</image:title><image:caption>Grandmom Edith </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2010-05-18T02:23:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/04/25/confidence-lost/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/sc00320e5a1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc00320e5a</image:title><image:caption>Born to write. Born cursed.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/sc00320e5a.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sc00320e5a</image:title><image:caption>Born ready to write. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2010-09-03T05:47:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/05/02/call-an-ambulance/</loc><lastmod>2010-05-18T02:28:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/01/30/wristcutters-the-movie-and-the-meaning-of-life/</loc><lastmod>2014-09-21T17:15:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2010/01/21/then-we-came-to-the-end-a-question-of-ptsd/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/end1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Then We Came to the End book cover</image:title><image:caption>Then We Came to the End, by Joshua Ferris </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/end.jpg</image:loc><image:title>end</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2010-01-21T19:46:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2009/12/31/cast-the-first-stone/</loc><lastmod>2010-01-04T21:27:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2009/12/17/be-careful-who-you-look-up-to-a-cautionary-tale/</loc><lastmod>2009-12-18T02:20:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com/2009/12/12/hippie-at-heart/</loc><lastmod>2009-12-17T23:31:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thesolitaryconfinement.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2014-09-21T17:15:02+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
